Why Young
Christians Are Not Waiting Anymore
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September 27th, 2011
John Blake
I am very surprised to find such an honest straight forward
article on the subject of fornication and adultery.
That’s the implication in the upcoming October issue of an evangelical magazine that claims: that young, unmarried Christians are
having premarital sex almost as much as their non-Christian peers. (We have tried to raise the alarm over this tidal wave of
fornication, adultery, divorce and remarriage among Evangelicals,
Fundamentalists, Pentecostals and Charismatics. This is due to the feel good
messages that has overthrown the preaching and teaching in meetings. This is a direct result of having done away
with any mention of Sin, Righteousness, The Fear of
God, and The Coming Judgment. And also of all the sins of man excepting Blasphemy
of the Holy Ghost, God seems to hate fornication and adultery more than any
other sin. This means that any believer dabbles in these kinds of sin and
corruption does them to their own absolute peril.
The article in Relevant magazine, entitled “(Almost) Everyone’s Doing It” cited several studies examining the sexual activity of single Christians. One of the biggest surprises was a December 2009 study, conducted by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy which included information on sexual activity.
While the study’s primary report did not explore religion, some additional analysis focusing on sexual activity and religious identification yielded this result: 80 percent of unmarried evangelical young adults (18 to 29) said that they have had sex - slightly less than 88 percent of non-evangelical unmarried young adults, according to the teen pregnancy prevention organization.
Mark 7:21-23 For from within, out of the heart of man, proceed
evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts covetousness,
wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil
eye Gr. Opthalmos
Poneros -- Poneria Poneros Note this word bears some
similarity to Fornication Gr. Pornos. Whereas Pornos
is the act of having non-adulterous sex. Poneros here is done with the eyes so it is sexually
suggestive looks [A
prostitute or a fornicator taking one with their eyes] Poneros can also be looking down in disgust with one’s eyes or facial expression.
Or the ever popular rolling of one’s eyes belittling another.) blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these
things come from within and defile the man. (These things absolutely defile believers, so that they are rejected by
Jesus Christ. In other words these are sins unto death for Bible Believing Christians, that the blood of Jesus Christ does not cleanse wash
away or purify. When people commit these
high crimes, they enter into satan’s
keep where they are made to pay every last pence for their evil deeds)
Revelation 2:14 But I have a
few things against thee.; because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balak
to cast a stumbling block before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed idols, and to commit
fornication.
It should be shocking
to read in the book of Revelation that two churches or two denominations were immersed in acts of Fornication, Adultery – more than likely manifesting themselves in Unrighteous Divorce
and Remarriage.
One of these two Churches is said to have had “The doctrine of Balaam” These
teachings would have sit forth the notion that being Kingz Kidz nothing is to
be withheld from you, and that nothing is sin. So that according to Balaam the
greatest defilement before God, and that used upon the children of
So in this church Adultery and Fornication were made out to be ok,
through some form of eternal security, extreme grace, being kingz kidz, or some
other blurb of unscriptural psycho-babble.
While in all actuality, in the bible it is recorded that God destroyed
all those who committed the Fornication of Balaam. And for those Old Covenant
New Covenant Truthers out there because it is specifically listed in the New
Covenant book of Revelation, the relevance of the utter destruction of all
believers in Christ who partake of such blatant sexual acts within the frame
work of a congregation or one their own, will enter into the like fate of those
who committed fornication in Israel as per Balaam’s instructions.
Incidentally: Balaam was a prophet of God who for a whole room of gold, betrayed his charge of God. Balaam was
bought out for the purpose of discerning
how that God would remove His divine protection from the children of
There was also one other cherry that Balaam desired to pluck. Understand that Balaam was the prophet of God
to the Midianites just as Moses father-in-law Jethro was the priest of God for
the Midianites (Understand here that under Jethro’s tutelage Moses had his
meeting of God in the wilderness, [We
also strongly suspect that Jethro gave Moses the Holy Book of the Midianites:
The Book of Job effectively passing the torch of God from the Midianites to the
Children of Israel) The second cherry Balaam no doubt desired here was the
elimination of Moses and Israel so that Balaam would be the one who was able to
restore to the Midianites the title of being: God’s chosen people.
In saying these things see here that the means Balaam used was a quote
from the book of Job.
This utter defilement here spelled out that was to be used against
Thus brings us to an absolute understanding of how deadly God’s people
defiling themselves, and spotting and defiling their garments is not only to
Israel in the Old Testament but to entire churches in the New Covenant. Adultery
with another man’s wife, Adultery with an unrighteously divorced believer,
fornication for a believer, Unrighteous divorce by a believer are sin’s unto death.
The one night stand, and sex for fun among
young Christian people is to open the doors of eternal death. God can not and
will not simply wink these things away ascribing them to the sins of
youth. Jesus condemns these specific
acts as well so do not deceive yourself to believe he will cover such grievous sin
and accept with open arms Christians who have so deeply defiled.
Committing Adultery, Fornication, and Unrighteous Divorce is the Sin of
Esau that is the trading your God given birthright for something so weak beggarly
that is here a moment and then gone with the blink of an eye.
Therefore it is the commandment of God for a young man and a young
woman to protect with everything they have, even unto death that which the Lord
has laid in their trust. So that any defilement of a man and woman’s sexually
organs, fluids, and seed is deep defilement, defilement which any believer who
partakes of such things their garments shall be permanently stained, these shall not take part in the first
resurrection, but shall stand in the final judgment when all the books of their
deeds shall be opened and they shall be made to account for all their evil
deeds.
If one were to be so childish to think that God hating and judging
harshly those who commit fornication, adultery, and commit unrighteous divorce,
think again. Millions upon millions of CINO’s
[Christians In Name Only] will be destroyed according
to everything that is written in the bible concerning these deeds, consider the
rise of these sins as part of our being in the last days.
The devil is making war with the church of this day and hour, just as
he made war against Job, against
Putting your children in a Christian school, or home schooling does not
protect your children as many parents foolishly believe. In truth ONLY the parents in a Godly Household
being in constant contact, being the teacher guide and nurturer of their
children can arm and protect their kids against this onslaught.
Revelation 2:20
Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because though sufferest that woman Jezebel which
calleth herself a prophetess, to teach
and to seduce my servants to
commit fornication and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.
Revelation
18:2-4 And
he cried mightily with a strong voice. Saying
The article highlights what challenges abstinence movements face. Movements
such as “True Love Waits,” encourage teens to wear purity rings, sign virginity
pledges and pledge chastity during public ceremonies.
Yet many
of these Christian youths eventually abandon their purity pledges, Relevant’s Tyler Charles concludes in the article.
But she said she started having sex
with her college boyfriend when she turned 20 because
nearly everyone, even most of her Christian
friends, were having sex.
Maria: It seemed everyone in my life, older and younger, had “done it.” In fact, I waited longer than most people I knew and longer than both of my sisters, even though we were all Christians and came from a good home.
Relevant theorizes about why
it’s so hard for so many young Christians to wait, including the
saturation of sex in popular culture, the prevalence of pornography and a
popular “do what feels good philosophy.”
Yet the article also asks a question that rarely comes up in
discussions about abstinence movement. Relevant notes that in biblical times, people married
earlier. The average age for marriage has been increasing in the U.S for
the last 40 years. Today, it’s not unusual to meet a Christian who is single at
30 - or 40 or 50, for that matter. So what do you tell them? Keep waiting?
Scot McKnight, co-author of “The Jesus Creed,” acknowledges that young, single Christians face temptations that their counterparts in the biblical age didn’t face.
He tells
Relevant: Sociologically speaking, the one big difference – and it’s monstrous
– between the biblical teaching and our culture is the arranged marriages of
very young people. If you get married when you’re 13, you don’t have 15 years
of temptation.
So what should a Christian parent or youth pastor do? How do they convince more young Christians to wait until marriage, or should they stop even trying?